If you are fresh out of a divorce (or even in the midst), chances are good that you might need a little break. And what could be better than a vacation and bonding with your children?
That can definitely be a good plan. But before you start packing your bags, it’s wise to learn more about your custody situation here in Indiana.
Why this could matter
In a contested divorce where parents have yet to agree on custody matters, you could potentially face obstacles to taking the kids with you on your trip. In hotly contested divorces where feelings run high on one or both sides, the court may have imposed some custody restrictions.
That doesn’t mean that the short trip or family reunion is off the table, however. It just means that you must remain compliant with any temporary orders put in place by the courts.
Restrictions you might face
It’s always best to hammer out all vacation arrangements with your co-parent before purchasing expensive or nonrefundable plane tickets and reservations. You could be barred from taking your child out of the country or even Indiana. Below are additional travel conditions and restrictions that you may need to include:
- Prearrange to share your itinerary with your co-parent
- Provide ways for your child to communicate with their other parent on the trip
- Length of the vacation
- Give proper notice to the other parent before leaving on your trip
It’s easier to plan a summer vacation with your child if you have a civil relationship with their other parent. Keep that in mind going forward.
Can parents dictate who goes on the trip?
This can become important if one parent wants to include their current paramour in their vacation plans. Can you object to the presence of your ex’s love interest? Possibly, if their lack of sobriety or poor choices puts the kids at risk.
To learn more, work closely with your trusted legal adviser to determine the best path forward.
