When parents of an infant go through a separation or divorce, the act of creating a parenting plan requires special effort. Infants have specific emotional, physical and developmental requirements that must be prioritized in any custody arrangement. It is for this reason that Indiana provides specific guidance for parents whose children are this young.
Infants rely on consistent care and routine to feel secure, and they also develop strong attachments to their primary caregivers. For this reason, a parenting plan for an infant should focus on frequent and shorter visits, rather than extended periods of separation from either parent. Infants need regular contact with both parents to form bonds, but long separations from their primary caregiver can be distressing in ways that aren’t healthy.
Getting a plan in place
Infants thrive on routine, so establishing consistent schedules for feeding, naps and bedtime can help to facilitate their well-being. Both parents should work together to create a parenting plan that maintains the same routines in both households, when possible. A consistent routine helps reduce stress for the baby and ensures they receive the care and attention they need to develop properly. Communication between parents about the baby’s schedule, dietary needs, and sleep patterns can also help when it comes to providing a nurturing and stable environment.
Finally, it’s important that if a parent is breastfeeding, this should be considered when crafting a parenting plan. Infants who are breastfeeding may need to stay close for regular feedings, especially during the first few months of life. Co-parents should do what they can to work together to create a plan that accommodates the baby’s feeding schedule, whether through short visits or other flexible arrangements. With that said, if pumping and storing breast milk is an option, it can allow the other parent to participate in feeding while still supporting the baby’s nutritional needs.
Every infant-related parenting plan scenario is unique. Therefore, it can help to pursue personalized legal guidance during the planning process. And, in the event that disagreements can’t be reached without judicial oversight, legal support can help parents to fight for their rights – and their child’s best interests – in court.